He Strangled Me Against The Toilet Seat, You Pissed Him Off That's Why - What's Your Take On This Domestic Violence Case?

Domestic violence is a social evil. A one time experience impacts negatively on the daily lives of the victims. Now imagine a person who constantly experience this, in silence. That's horrible.

This is the reason why some people had chosen to take up domestic violence cases. Some people do it to get paid, while some, pro bono. For them, it is all about the well deserved justice.

In recent years, you must have seen someone sharing their horrible experience in their relationship on social media (with no respect to a particular gender). The question you might be asking is this: "why are you bringing your private life to the public?"

The number of people looking out to help those who are oppress in their relationships and marriages has in recent times given hope to many, hence, something that was once considered private has become unacceptable and public.

The case discussed here is not an exception. A twitter user, Biyi Nifemi Tudors with the twitter handle, @thebiyitudors shared how he was recently involve in domestic violence. He wrote:

I was recently involved in a domestic abuse situation and truthfully, it has been one of the most unpleasant experiences of my life.

As much as I’ll like to keep a lot of details about my relationship private for now,

— Biyi Nifemi Tudors (@thebiyitudors) March 6, 2021

His explanations clearly states that he did raised his hands on the other party, his girlfriend, Bena with the twitter handle, @SabenaOfLagos. He wrote:

 

I’ll like to state that what may come off as me laying my hands on Bena was nothing but self defense. I was trapped and physically violated in a corner of my home because I ended my relationship with Bena.

I was beaten and hit with things she could easily find.

— Biyi Nifemi Tudors (@thebiyitudors) March 6, 2021

I didn’t react at first because I never wanted to be that guy that I drag and curse everyday for perpetuating violence. I held my peace until I was sure that if I didn’t find a way out of that situation, I would lose my life or be severely hurt.

— Biyi Nifemi Tudors (@thebiyitudors) March 6, 2021

I never in my life thought I’d be a victim of domestic violence . We had a misunderstanding this morning and I was even still trying to make amends as it should be in a relationship, but instead my supposed boyfriend chose to be violent. he pushed me away and I pushed him back.

— Baby Influencer 🍫Bena 🍫 (@SabenaOfLagos) March 6, 2021

Her explanation of what led to the destruction of the toilet: 

that’s all I remembered before he started landing slaps, punches on face.. I fell down with my hair bonnet over my face blinding me and he kept on beating me, I tried to remove the blindfold so I could find my way out, he dragged me into the toilet and was strangling me against

— Baby Influencer 🍫Bena 🍫 (@SabenaOfLagos) March 6, 2021

She added:

the WC till it broke , I had to pull his shirt and I was using my hands so he wouldn’t kill me , he kept slapping me until his neighbors had to come and rescue me. You put out a tweet in defense to my tweet which they coerced me into deleting at the station claiming I hit you

— Baby Influencer 🍫Bena 🍫 (@SabenaOfLagos) March 6, 2021

As expected,  so many people had a lot to say. One of the comments that sparks another conversation is this:

Things Ill love to understand
1. Why was it you trying to make amends and not him...first sign you know you pissed him off
2. What form of pleading did you use to warrant his pushing away.
3. He pushd you away, if you have acted hurt, I'm sure he'll calm down but u chose violence

— KING 👑 SOLOMON (@Itz_Oluwatoba) March 6, 2021

Responding to @itz_oluwatoba tweet, @BajTunji have this to say:

This tweet just showed that u are an abuser too not different from d horrible abuser in focus. The day u lay ur hands on a female is the day u cease to be a man regardless what reason u may think u have for committing such a horrible cowardly act

— Tunji baj (@BajTunji) March 6, 2021

What do you think of this case (of domestic violence), @itz_oluwatoba tweet (comments) and the response from @Bajtunji?  

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